You ever take a second to analyze your life? Most of us just live day by day. However, we are blind to the past occurrences in which help build our present. In order for you to move forward in life, you need to create a list of pros and cons. Pros should be based on what you are currently aiming for or past goals you made that positively lead you to a bright future. Cons should be based on what you don’t need in your life and what will block you from completing those goals you set to aim for. Without goals, you will wonder around in life like a piece of feather. Feathers float around until they find a place to land. Nobody wants to be a feather forever! A feather is a like a bum. You don’t know where to find a place to stay nor will you have motivation. The true questions are: Where do you see yourself in life ? How will you get there? What will you do to stay at that point ?
Do not swish through life and throw things in the back of you as if your cleaning out a dirty closet. When it comes to cleaning a dirty closet, you have to sort out things that you remove from the closet. Place those items into three groups. Those three groups are: throw away, keep, and the unsure pile. Life is like a closet, either it is kept clean or dirty. Those three groups apply to reality too. You have to throw away the bad things in your life to accept the good. You have to keep certain things in your life to maintain the hold of the good and other choices you are not sure of, just keep them in that pile. Then, you slowly place them in the keep or throw away pile as the days go. There is no rush when it comes to making your own decisions. Do not just jump to a conclusion because it’s a gut feeling or it’s the first answer that come to mind. Think before reacting. You must think before you react to something. Every cause has an effect and if you do not think before you react in a situation, the result will be in good or a bad state. Even though, the saying is “action speaks louder then words”, without the thought process and words be spoken, there is no action. Also, without thinking the actions that follows are just unspoken words.
To wrap this post up, I want you to close your eyes and visualize your life for 30 seconds.When you open your eyes, jot down your first thought on a piece of sticky note, phone notes or etc. After you write it down, memorize and connect with what you wrote to implant those words in your head. Once you wrote it down, crumble up that paper and throw that paper away. Cause that’s something you no longer need...🙂
You learn. You forget. You understand. You progress. You live.
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